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Not Another Coming Out-Essay???
Yeah, another coming out-essay.
Shared this on my FB, for reasons that are quickly obvious. But your AFAB AYYYY-Fab!!! Bug thought they’d share it here, too … even though I kind of already (over-)share much of this in my About.
Wazzup?
Been thinking for week about how to tell folks then remembered … this shit-tastic Hell-site is the loudest bullhorn on the planet (unfortunately). Almost everyone worth telling is already a friend on this algorithm purgatory.
I’m finally beginning to properly express who I am and how I want to be … which is trans masculine. In pursuit of that, I started T (testosterone) five weeks ago (no Barry White-voice, yet, but I sure started stinking like someone with testosterone, holy shit, I get SO RANK). That said: I’m still agender. Still autistic, still ADHD, still AWESOME AF. I’m MIGHT NOT be ace … I’m starting to revisit that understanding. It might well-be that tangled-up gender issues and sexuality issues, along with my autie-issues — involving, among other things, VERY stark boundaries and long-standing issues with being touched and fucking GERMS — as well as my social quirks have led to me misapprehending where I fall on the sexuality spectrum. Wouldn’t be the first time. I’ll never not be a work-in-progress.
As for being aromantic … romantic…
