Your boss has a lot of nerve! That's a crazy thing to do!

I'm so sorry you had to put up with that. That is one of the most tone-deaf things I've read of a boss saying. That was a place where she should have said: "Oh, I didn't realize. I didn't mean to intrude."

And that could've been the end of it. But so many people CAN'T admit when they've done wrong and caused harm.

Your boss should have said she was sorry. She likely won't. So, I'll say it again, and hope it helps at least a little. I'm sorry your boundaries were so disrespected and belittled. You didn't deserve that.

Fingers crossed, your boss moves to Neptune.